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As I sat in my dimly lit apartment, staring at the blank walls, I couldn't help but feel like I'd hit rock bottom. The economic downturn had taken its toll on my business, and I was struggling to make ends meet. My phone, once a symbol of connectivity and convenience, now felt like a constant reminder of my failures. Many people assume that those of us with connections to influential individuals or access to power are immune to problems, but that's far from the truth. We have our own struggles too. I was taken aback when my friend initially thought my WhatsApp and Facebook accounts had been hacked. But after verifying my identity through video and voice calls, they realized it was genuinely me reaching out for help. Just as I was about to give in to despair, my phone buzzed with an incoming call from an unexpected number. It was my friend, Tunde, someone I had considered a close acquaintance, but not someone I would have thought to reach out to in my time of nee

As I scrolled through the faded photograph, the faces of my former classmates stared back at me - a relic from a time long passed. There was Ms. Sola, our teacher, standing resolute in the center, her stern gaze commanding our rapt attention. And there were the familiar names, each one a thread in the tapestry of my youth: Sharon, Delani, Kola, Hazumo, Gafar, Ibrahim the drummer boy, Moji, Sijibomi, Damilola, Esther, Moses, Bimbo, and of course, my own humble self. Time, that elusive and relentless force, had swept us all along on its inexorable march. The carefree days of Evaton Nursery and Primary School, where knowledge, values, and good morals were imparted, now felt like a lifetime ago. How quickly the years had slipped through our fingers, leaving us changed, molded by the experiences that followed. As I gazed at the photograph, I couldn't help but reflect on the fleeting nature of time. The innocent faces in the image, frozen in a moment of captured history, now

In today's social media-driven world, it's easy to confuse fleeting connections with genuine relationships. People often prioritize relevance over meaningful relationships, seeking to associate with influential individuals or gain access to exclusive circles. This superficial focus on status and position can lead to shallow connections, lacking the depth and authenticity that true relationships require. Once upon a time, there was a young woman named Gbem. She was charismatic, friendly, and always willing to lend a helping hand. As a result, she had a large social circle and was often invited to high-profile events. One day, Gbem met a successful businesswoman named Sophie, who was admired by many for her achievements. They exchanged numbers, and Sophie started showering Gbem with praise and attention on social media. Gbem was flattered and felt honored to be associated with someone so influential. However, as time passed, Gbem realized that Sophie only reached out

As I reflect on personal and professional challenges, I remember how important "The Head" is.  Tracing our journey from that single sperm cell to where we are today. You will see that you have come far. You are not a failure. You are a survivor. You are not competing in life. The rest of your life is the best of your life and the best is yet to come. As I pondered on the importance of "The Head," there is a story between the Farmer and the Hunter which I will explain with this rime. Bi ori ba da rokoroko l'aamu, Yio da bii pe ko le roko t'egbe re Ika kii fe k'ar reru k'a so Bi ori ba nda sodesode l'aamu Yio da bii pe ko lee p'eran t'egbe re Atari l'alayanmo, ori l'elejo Ko s'sosa tii -ba 'nii -ja l'ehin ori eni Ori eni nii wipe k'o ye ni Meaning....... If a farmer's head is against him, It will appear as if he cannot work like his colleagues. The wicked don't want one to unburden his burden. If

Politics of Development is not just by mouth but by Action. I remembered my late grandpa, Baba Francis Falade Fayemi (FFF), a respected leader in the community, who would spend hours sitting in the garage, earnestly listening to the concerns and stories of the townspeople. The image of my grandfather's unwavering dedication and availability struck a chord within me. From that moment on, I made a decision. I understood that being available and genuinely listening to the people was not merely something he was asked to do; it was something he was told to do. It became clear to him that this was the first, best, and sometimes the only way to build meaningful relationships and engage with the community. While growing up, I love visiting my hometown because this is an avenue to meet with my grandpa and learn from his well of experience. I grew up knowing that "Leadership is service." When I started going back to the grassroots soliciting for votes and me

When I started as a Scientific Officer at Federal Teaching Hospital, Ido Ekiti (FETHI), I knew I had to make a significant impact. So, instead of diving headfirst into my tasks, I took a step back and observed the intricate dynamics that shaped the Information and Corporate Affairs Department. I immersed myself in understanding my colleagues, the leadership dynamics, and the hidden power structures that influenced decision-making. I carefully observed the written and unwritten rules that governed our workplace. It was this deep understanding that allowed me to create a transformational change within the hospital. Utilizing my expertise in digital communications and content creation, I recognized the immense potential of social media in enhancing our organization's presence. With strategic precision, I revamped the hospital's social media platforms, crafting compelling content that resonated with our target audience. The results were astonishing - an exponential incr

As I gazed at the throwback pictures from the V-connect program, a rush of gratitude and nostalgia washed over me. It was in that very moment that I realized the profound impact that experience had on my life's trajectory. The program organized by V-connect was not just a gathering; it was a transformative journey into the world of digital tools and SEO. It was there that I unearthed the hidden power of these tools, knowledge that has since become an invaluable asset in my personal and professional growth. But it wasn't just about the skills learned; it was about the people I met along the way. The incredible individuals who shared their wisdom, passion, and drive with me during those days have now become shining stars in their respective fields. The connections forged during that time were not just networking opportunities; they were priceless bonds that continue to inspire and support me today. I owe a huge shoutout to Essentro Classics Furniture for c

One day, I received an intriguing message from an anonymous sender. The message asked me to create a list of people in my life and circle my top three. Curiosity piqued, I grabbed a pen and paper and began scribbling down the names of my close family and friends. As I circled my top three, I couldn't help but wonder what this mysterious message was all about. Days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months, but I couldn't forget about the enigmatic request. I found myself continually evaluating my list, questioning my choices, and contemplating what it all meant. Who were the people who would pray for me without being asked? Who would care for me without any expectations? And who would correct me without judging? Driven by a deep desire to find answers, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery. I reached out to my loved ones, engaging in heartfelt conversations and meaningful connections. As I shared my hopes, dreams, and fears, I began to uncover the true ess

Today, good appears as evil, and evil is celebrated as good. There seems to be no room for dialogue. People shout at and insult each other without any understanding of what the other’s issues are. Truth is nowhere to be found in many of these conversations. Frankly, I could go on listing our world’s present shortcomings. However, that may do little to encourage improvement or inspire hope. Many injustices still plague our world. Poverty amid surplus, religious intolerance, racism, gender discrimination, and many more. The need for change cannot be overstated.  In many communities across the globe, people are crying out for a transformation from the current world order. Therefore, the question remains, “Do we turn away and give up in our quest for justice, peace, truth, and a better world?”  The answer for me is a resounding NO! We must recognize that until we challenge our world’s problems, we will continue to live in fear, lack, and anger. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Do