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"Riches and Woes"

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Nigeria, land of plenty, Rich in resources, yet poorly managed, Intelligent minds abound, But potential untapped, and underinvested. Eloquent leaders speak, Of people's needs, and broken records, But service and action lag, Leaving progress unclaimed, and unexplored. Political celebrities rise, Overnight, in a flurry of fame, But disengage, and disappear, Leaving the people to bear the blame. Religiosity runs deep, But faith often fails to translate, Into tangible care, and love, For our shared humanity, and collective fate. Oh, Nigeria, land of paradox, Where abundance and lack entwine, Where intelligence, and eloquence, Fail to yield, a better design. Let us bridge the gaps, Between resources, potential, and achievement, Let us invest, in our people, And effective governance, with true leadership. Let us harness, our records, And claim the benefits, of our toil, Let us engage, and remain concerned, For the welfare, of our collective soil. Let us translate, our faith,
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The Unexpected Call

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As I sat in my dimly lit apartment, staring at the blank walls, I couldn't help but feel like I'd hit rock bottom. The economic downturn had taken its toll on my business, and I was struggling to make ends meet. My phone, once a symbol of connectivity and convenience, now felt like a constant reminder of my failures. Many people assume that those of us with connections to influential individuals or access to power are immune to problems, but that's far from the truth. We have our own struggles too. I was taken aback when my friend initially thought my WhatsApp and Facebook accounts had been hacked. But after verifying my identity through video and voice calls, they realized it was genuinely me reaching out for help. Just as I was about to give in to despair, my phone buzzed with an incoming call from an unexpected number. It was my friend, Tunde, someone I had considered a close acquaintance, but not someone I would have thought to reach out to in my time of nee
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The Fleeting Nature of Time

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As I scrolled through the faded photograph, the faces of my former classmates stared back at me - a relic from a time long passed. There was Ms. Sola, our teacher, standing resolute in the center, her stern gaze commanding our rapt attention. And there were the familiar names, each one a thread in the tapestry of my youth: Sharon, Delani, Kola, Hazumo, Gafar, Ibrahim the drummer boy, Moji, Sijibomi, Damilola, Esther, Moses, Bimbo, and of course, my own humble self. Time, that elusive and relentless force, had swept us all along on its inexorable march. The carefree days of Evaton Nursery and Primary School, where knowledge, values, and good morals were imparted, now felt like a lifetime ago. How quickly the years had slipped through our fingers, leaving us changed, molded by the experiences that followed. As I gazed at the photograph, I couldn't help but reflect on the fleeting nature of time. The innocent faces in the image, frozen in a moment of captured history, now
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The illusion of Relevance: Why True Relationships Matter More.

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In today's social media-driven world, it's easy to confuse fleeting connections with genuine relationships. People often prioritize relevance over meaningful relationships, seeking to associate with influential individuals or gain access to exclusive circles. This superficial focus on status and position can lead to shallow connections, lacking the depth and authenticity that true relationships require. Once upon a time, there was a young woman named Gbem. She was charismatic, friendly, and always willing to lend a helping hand. As a result, she had a large social circle and was often invited to high-profile events. One day, Gbem met a successful businesswoman named Sophie, who was admired by many for her achievements. They exchanged numbers, and Sophie started showering Gbem with praise and attention on social media. Gbem was flattered and felt honored to be associated with someone so influential. However, as time passed, Gbem realized that Sophie only reached out
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How Important is The Head?

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As I reflect on personal and professional challenges, I remember how important "The Head" is.  Tracing our journey from that single sperm cell to where we are today. You will see that you have come far. You are not a failure. You are a survivor. You are not competing in life. The rest of your life is the best of your life and the best is yet to come. As I pondered on the importance of "The Head," there is a story between the Farmer and the Hunter which I will explain with this rime. Bi ori ba da rokoroko l'aamu, Yio da bii pe ko le roko t'egbe re Ika kii fe k'ar reru k'a so Bi ori ba nda sodesode l'aamu Yio da bii pe ko lee p'eran t'egbe re Atari l'alayanmo, ori l'elejo Ko s'sosa tii -ba 'nii -ja l'ehin ori eni Ori eni nii wipe k'o ye ni Meaning....... If a farmer's head is against him, It will appear as if he cannot work like his colleagues. The wicked don't want one to unburden his burden. If
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Difference between being "asked to do" and being "told to do"

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Politics of Development is not just by mouth but by Action. I remembered my late grandpa, Baba Francis Falade Fayemi (FFF), a respected leader in the community, who would spend hours sitting in the garage, earnestly listening to the concerns and stories of the townspeople. The image of my grandfather's unwavering dedication and availability struck a chord within me. From that moment on, I made a decision. I understood that being available and genuinely listening to the people was not merely something he was asked to do; it was something he was told to do. It became clear to him that this was the first, best, and sometimes the only way to build meaningful relationships and engage with the community. While growing up, I love visiting my hometown because this is an avenue to meet with my grandpa and learn from his well of experience. I grew up knowing that "Leadership is service." When I started going back to the grassroots soliciting for votes and me
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How Taking A Strategic Approach Can Revolutionize Your Workplace!

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When I started as a Scientific Officer at Federal Teaching Hospital, Ido Ekiti (FETHI), I knew I had to make a significant impact. So, instead of diving headfirst into my tasks, I took a step back and observed the intricate dynamics that shaped the Information and Corporate Affairs Department. I immersed myself in understanding my colleagues, the leadership dynamics, and the hidden power structures that influenced decision-making. I carefully observed the written and unwritten rules that governed our workplace. It was this deep understanding that allowed me to create a transformational change within the hospital. Utilizing my expertise in digital communications and content creation, I recognized the immense potential of social media in enhancing our organization's presence. With strategic precision, I revamped the hospital's social media platforms, crafting compelling content that resonated with our target audience. The results were astonishing - an exponential incr
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